What is the difference between a kink and a fetish?

A fetish is similar to a kink. A kink is similar to a fetish. However, the difference is that a fetish is a sexual fixation. A fixation where someone cannot become aroused without indulging in that fixation in some way, shape or form… Think about a foot fetish as an example. A foot fetishist would absolutely need to gaze at a woman’s feet, touch them or think about feet in order to get erect. A foot kink would be a pursuit where a man likes to play with a woman’s feet among other sexual pursuits, but pretty feet are not required for him to become or remain aroused.

AleishaKxo is a sexy British Chaturbate performer who indulges both fetishes and kinks. She knows how the sexual minds of men work. She especially indulges foot and ass fetishes since these fetishes are so popular with her admirers. This UK Milf shows ass and feet during her live webcam broadcasts to titillate her fans. As far as kinks that Aleisha enjoys, she likes to spank herself and deep throat dildos. Jerk Off Instructions, known as JOI in cam and phone sex parlance, is also a pursuit that Aleisha enjoys.

Aleisha is a switch. Being a switch is the best of both worlds in BDSM! As an example, when she wants to dominate underhung men, she will deliver mean small penis humiliation.

Sultry Aleisha has an erotic voice which she uses to full effect when she does ASMR during her live cam shows. Trance out to her ASMR vox effects and feel the power of her vocal prowess take over your mind and body.


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Lesbian or Bisexual Femdoms

Recently, one of my friends brought up an interesting theory that most Femdoms are either bisexual or lesbian. Since I’m bi and most of my Femdom friends and acquaintances are bi or lesbian, I would have to say this theory might bear some weight. I have known Lesbian Femdoms who dominated both men and women, but they especially despised men and were extremely cruel to the male species. However, their subbies and slaves loved their cruelty. Regardless, there are slaves and subs who fantasize about fucking Femdoms and there is even a humiliation porno XXX niche which features this dominant style of fucking. Personally, I would never fuck a slave or sub. But to each their own.

Why do men of any persuasion fantasize about lesbianas? Is it because men always want what they cannot have sexually? Or is it because they think they possess such fucking prowess that they can turn a lesbian onto dick, so that she will abandon her lesbian ways and become, at least, bisexual? The power of a penis isn’t that magical. Most lesbians don’t want to have anything to do with dick and even choose phallic sextoys which look toy-like instead of fleshy and cock-like. Lesbians, for the most part, have rejected the penis and have sexually rejected men.

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Power and Money are the New Female Orgasms

I laugh when a caller asks me if I’m playing with my pussy while making him gay, hypnotizing him or draining his wallet. “Sure, let me get out my vibrator while I rape your credit cards.” {Eye roll} Men are so phallocentric. They think that a Femdom must react to such plundering with her pussy. Not realizing that dominant women aren’t weak like men, who react to all stimuli in the universe with their erections or lack thereof. Erections are like twitching antennae. Sometimes these antennae even twitch collectively, as if a hive sexual mind ruled over men’s sexual organs. Men are not just weak genetically with their split XY chromosomal makeup, but weak because their erections cause them to lose optimal blood circulation level within their brain. Thus, causing them to have regional hypotension in that organ. Lack of blood flow, lack of oxygen. Weak…

Women are superior. We rise above the physiological burden of being ruled by our genitals. We think straight. We take advantage of men in their weakened state. We don’t go on a jerk-a-thon orgasm quest to porn. We go on a quest for power and money from men who are aroused and thus, weak. Power and money are the new female orgasms. These things excite us. We don’t masturbate and then lose interest in our goals as soon as we climax. We aren’t a victim to our twitching sex organ. We use power to manipulate men. We deny men pussy and power which only drives them more crazed to be dominated.

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Femdom Pet Peeves

Here are my Top 10 Femdom Pet Peeves!

1. Topping from the bottom
2. Promising Tributes and NOT delivering
3. Misusing the word dominate in lieu of dominant: “You’re so dominate!”
4. Hanging up the phone abruptly after orgasm – so disrespectful
5. Worshiping other Dommes while claiming exclusivity to me
6. “I bet you can’t dominate me”
7. Expecting me to remember you when you’ve done nothing to deserve to be remembered
8. Emails, DMs, etc., without Tips or Tributes
9. Repeated requests to meet in real time
10. Asking if I’m available for a call, when my Available status button is ON

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